costing of hash join

I'm trying to figure out why hash joins seem to be systematically underused
in my hands. In the case I am immediately looking at it prefers a merge
join with both inputs getting seq scanned and sorted, despite the hash join
being actually 2 to 3 times faster, where inputs and intermediate working
sets are all in memory. I normally wouldn't worry about a factor of 3
error, but I see this a lot in many different situations. The row
estimates are very close to actual, the errors is only in the cpu estimates.

A hash join is charged cpu_tuple_cost for each inner tuple for inserting it
into the hash table:

* charge one cpu_operator_cost for each column's hash function. Also,
* tack on one cpu_tuple_cost per inner row, to model the costs of
* inserting the row into the hashtable.

But a sort is not charged a similar charge to insert a tuple into the sort
memory pool:

* Also charge a small amount (arbitrarily set equal to operator cost)
per
* extracted tuple. We don't charge cpu_tuple_cost because a Sort node
* doesn't do qual-checking or projection, so it has less overhead than
* most plan nodes. Note it's correct to use tuples not output_tuples

Are these operations different enough to justify this difference? The
qual-checking (and I think projection) needed on a hash join should have
already been performed by and costed to the seq scan feeding the hashjoin,
right?

Cheers,

Jeff