pgbouncer - pgbouncer: win32: more fixes - proper message id - fix bugs

Log Message:
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win32: more fixes

- proper message id
- fix bugs in cmdline validation

Modified Files:
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pgbouncer/src:
main.c (r1.56 -> r1.57)
(http://cvs.pgfoundry.org/cgi-bin/cvsweb.cgi/pgbouncer/pgbouncer/src/main.c.diff?r1=1.56&r2=1.57)
pgbouncer/win32:
eventmsg.mc (r1.2 -> r1.3)
(http://cvs.pgfoundry.org/cgi-bin/cvsweb.cgi/pgbouncer/pgbouncer/win32/eventmsg.mc.diff?r1=1.2&r2=1.3)
eventmsg.rc (r1.1 -> r1.2)
(http://cvs.pgfoundry.org/cgi-bin/cvsweb.cgi/pgbouncer/pgbouncer/win32/eventmsg.rc.diff?r1=1.1&r2=1.2)
win32support.c (r1.1 -> r1.2)
(http://cvs.pgfoundry.org/cgi-bin/cvsweb.cgi/pgbouncer/pgbouncer/win32/win32support.c.diff?r1=1.1&r2=1.2)